A question a friend of mine asked me, rather unexpectedly, online, and my response:"Well, the thing is that I think that I'm gay. I was wondering when you knew for sure that you were gay, and also, when you came out, did…

That's it. I want to be gay--or at least, officially not straight. I want the world to know that I am, in fact, a bisexual man whose door sticks in the gay direction, contrary to my relationship record. In my life, I …